LOPALEWSKI

The nineteenth Chopin Competition has come to an end, leaving Warsaw a little quieter than it was a few weeks ago. Every five years, this remarkable event gathers pianists from around the world—young talents chasing perfection and, perhaps, a touch of immortality. For that days, Chopin’s music seems to fill the country’s airwaves and living rooms. In the last edition, his presence in Poland felt even stronger than the pandemic that had just swept through. I was lucky to attend the post-competition concert by the new laureate, the brilliant Canadian Bruce Liu, at the National Forum of Music in Wrocław. It was an evening of pure clarity and joy—a reminder of how alive Chopin’s music still feels when played with honesty and fire.

The Chopin Competition is, for me, also a family story. A story of a musical lineage in which a special place belonged to my grandfather Zygmunt – the very man whose name I carry.
It was his dream that my father would become a pianist. He began playing before the war, as a little boy. In our family apartment on Emilii Plater Street in Warsaw – long gone now, destroyed during the war – stood a piano.
Some photographs have survived… black and white, their edges softly worn, yet still alive with the memory of those moments.

Father played beautifully, by all accounts. He graduated from music school and, in 1960, took part in the preliminary qualifications for the Chopin Competition. He told me about it once – how, at the time, the final decisions were made by teachers from other schools, and how he was instead offered a chance to compete in Brussels.
That year, Polish pianists did not fare well in Warsaw. The brilliant Maurizio Pollini won. Father said with admiration that “no one could match Pollini then,” but he also felt he could have defended the honour of the Polish school.
Something in him must have broken after that. The piano was sold, and in its place appeared a reel-to-reel tape recorder – a technological marvel of the day, of which he was very proud.
Apparently, the look on my grandfather’s face when he saw that massive machine said it all. My father never played again, though whenever he heard a piano somewhere, I could see the quiet ache in his eyes. All that remains of him, the pianist, is one old photograph. And a silence filled with unsaid notes.

There is one more story – also tied to the Competition.
In 1985, my father, by then an accomplished television director, was tasked with supervising the broadcast of two stages of the Chopin Competition. For two weeks he lived in the Metropol Hotel in Warsaw, just ten minutes’ walk from the National Philharmonic.
The Metropol still stands today – I stay there sometimes. It has a certain charm, a whisper of another era.
Back then, Father spent nearly all his days inside the broadcast van, working tirelessly, jotting down small but precise notes in his spare moments. He correctly predicted the winner (fantastic Stanislav Bunin) and most of the laureates – as if he were listening not only with the ear of a professional, but with the heart of a musician he never stopped being.

I don’t play the piano – that was never my choice, more an echo of my father’s dreams.
And yet, Chopin has always been a part of me. His music – filled with light, tenderness, and unrest – awakens something deep inside me. The same kind of tremor I feel whenever my fingers brush a piano key.

My son – Krzyś – doesn’t play any instrument as me. Perhaps that’s all right. Each of us carries our own kind of music inside.
Once, I took a photograph of him that I still cherish. There’s something in it – a trace of silence after sound, a kind of memory that refuses to fade.

But back to the title of this story.
Not long ago, while hiking in the gentle mountains of Lower Silesia, we came across a monument to Fryderyk Chopin on the summit of Orlica.
I admit, I was surprised. The frail, sixteen-year-old Chopin – in the mountains? I had to look it up.

Chopin, it turns out, visited the mountains twice – in 1826 and again in 1829.
In August 1826, sixteen years old, he came to the spa town of Duszniki-Zdrój (then Reinerz) with his mother and sisters, seeking to regain his health. He drank the mineral waters, strolled through the park, and gave one of his first public performances – in the building now known as the Chopin Manor.
There’s no real evidence he climbed Orlica. Yet local tradition insists he took a walk in that direction.
The obelisk standing there today symbolically binds the young composer to this land – more through the spirit of Romanticism than through historical fact.
It’s beautiful, really, how history sometimes writes for a poet or a musician the chapters they never had time to live – or to see.

Three years later, in 1829, Chopin travelled to the Tatra Mountains – to the Chochołowska and Kościeliska valleys. In his letters from that time, he wrote of his awe at the landscape and the mountain folk music:

“I have seen marvellous things. Mountains, valleys, streams – like something out of a fairy tale! But the climbing is hard, so I sit here below, gazing at the peaks others are conquering.”

I like to think that, in that moment, he was simply a young man – like any of us – moved by the beauty of the world, yet wistful that he lacked the strength to touch its highest summits.

Emotionally, June is an important month for me, not only because of my birthday. Like every year, it passes very quickly, reminding me of the passage of time. One thing does not change – the delight in what is happening around me in nature.

For years, June has been a kind of time for me to practice seeing. The objects are flowers and colors.

Polish meadows are full of poppies, cornflowers and chamomile during this period. I can name these flowers, but there are so many other species blooming around…

This year, poppies were especially abundant. However, these flowers are very short-lived, they appear and disappear from one day to the next. This makes taking pictures of them all the more fun.

Years ago, I found a meadow with poppies (and cornflowers) during a trip to Denmark with little Krzyś.

Sessions in June meadows, especially spontaneous ones, are magical moments. This was also the case in recent days. I live outside a big city now, such colorful places are easier to find. And Ula’s smiling face in such surroundings gives an added value in such beautiful surrounding. And sometimes… you don’t need the color…

There is magic in returning to Rome in November. Especially for someone living in Poland, which for Italians is “far” to the north. Indeed, in my country, sunny days are rare at this time, and warm sunny days basically do not happen.

And then there is Rome. On the one hand, I have an internal compulsion to always visit the same, almost obvious places for every tourist. On top of that, there are my own discoveries. I mean not only churches, but also coffee, alleys, smells.

And people watching. It never gets boring, and Romans (who are so easy to distinguish from tourists) have that SOMETHING on their faces.

But tourists, as always numerous, stop gracefully in front of my camera.

So in Rome nihil novi? Changes are slow. Eternal construction of the third metro line, eternal preparations for smaller and larger celebrations. Eternal chaos. And eternal order. Always the same. Just as it should always be in the Eternal City.

Music has been with me for 50 years. When my father found out about my birthday, he played Wagner’s „Tanheuser” at maximum volume in the apartment on Wschodnia Street. Lodz. As soon as I arrived home as a bundle, music began to trickle into my ear.

It was almost always classical music (with a few exceptions, where there was some space for The Beatles). Records, cassettes or reel-to-reel tapes were played over and over again, so I acquired knowledge naturally. I was shaped into a music lover, mainly by my father, who, despite his later fate, was a promising pianist in his youth.

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I don’t play any instrument. OK, I once sang in a choir, apparently with good results, because I have good hearing. I strummed the guitar. I still admire the piano to this day, although the fact that I don’t play was a conscious decision of my parents, who didn’t want me to go through what my father went through as a child, back in the 1930s, spending hours in front of a great instrument…

Classical music is a broad definition. Which composers did I like and like the most? Mainly neo-romanticism, but also Beethoven, Mozart, Tchaikovsky, Prokofiev, Chopin, of course… In first place, however, was Gustav Mahler, whom my father loved so much. His photo always hung in his workplace, which we called „the hole”.

My father loved Mahler’s music, explored the composer’s life and even wrote a novel, largely based on the musician’s biography. He did not finish his work. Fortunately, what he wrote remains to this day. My father never had the opportunity to visit places important in Mahler’s life. Those were different times and the possibilities were very limited. All that was left was imagination. Dad passed away thirty years ago. Today he would be 90 years old. I’m 50.

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I must admit that I have passed through Vienna (the most important city in Mahler’s life) countless times. However, I have never visited the city itself. Where did the idea for a birthday trip with my beloved come from? I don’t know, it had to be that way. We liked the city very much, we had plenty of time for the main attractions, visiting galleries, the Prater, a concert of (of course!) classical music, good Wiener Schnitzel, Sacher Torte and delicious coffee.

Finally, a visit to a small, intimate cemetery… located in a quiet district of Vienna. Silence, no visitors. Finding Mahler’s austere grave was not a problem. A flower, or rather a piece of blooming weed, as a decoration. A short prayer. This visit to this place was for you, Daddy. And yes, I am 50 years old. But I want and intend to continue living and be happy. Trivial? Maybe. Real? Yes. After all, everything still depends on me.

Searching for beautiful mountain views is my winter obsession. Maybe that’s why I like skiing so much. I’m not a great skier. Oh well, I’m doing fine. But this is all about something else. Frost, sun, omnipresent white. And peaks to the horizon. Every winter must have a few similar accents. Otherwise it’s not winter. So, the Kitzsteinhorn glacier in Austria is a good place to start. A sequel should come pretty soon…

I remember this day so well, even though exactly 18 years have passed. It was raining, it was awful weather, but it didn’t matter because everything already revolved around him- Krzyś, who needed a moment to come into this world. (The photos below are placed in chronological order, from 2005 to 2023.)

We already knew more or less how he looked like thanks to the ultrasound. Tocha grimaced, his nose was big… And it has stayed that way to this day. We didn’t know what he would be like yet, but it was us, the adults, who shaped it into who he is today.

The child has become an adult. This day is also important for parents. I’m touched. I remember. But why did these years pass so quickly?

What was that time like? It was beautiful, with both brighter and darker moments but I will only carry good memories with me.

Today, Krzyś becomes Krzysztof. I wish you, my son, only unforgettable moments from now on. A wisdom that will allow you to overcome all threats, to avoid traps and go always straight. But remember- You will always be my little Krzyś.

On your birthday I am giving you my unconditional Love as an eternal gift asking only for eternal Friendship.
Your loving Father

Summer calms me down, makes my thoughts run in a different direction than usual. During this period, I like to escape from the city, look for nature, commune with it. I absorb the smells and fill my eyes with colors, because they change so quickly. So it’s vacation time…

It’s been a year. But from what? The beginning a war? NO. Exactly on February 24, Russia launched a massive attack on Ukrainian territory, unprecedented on such a scale- in terms of brutality, intensity, pure violence. But this war started much earlier. Unfortunately, the West has forgotten about it. And the conflict continued to smolder. After the seizure of Crimea, people were dying on the frontline almost every day. I remember the sadness of Ukrainians saying that they feel abandoned by the world, alone… However, it had one good thing in my opinion. The growing resistance and heroism, the defense of its territory already years ago had a significant impact on forging the steadfastness and self-awareness of the Ukrainian nation. And fortunately it seems that now also the western leaders have finally understood who they were dealing with. No more games with Putin.

This is a symbolic day and all the world’s media are talking about it. For me, this is an opportunity to go back with the memories to one of the most fantastic cities I have ever been to – Kiev.

I came to Kiev on business, but I always made sure that I had at least some time to experience this city. Great, crazy, intense, melancholic, modern, full of contrast city. And, above all, I met there sunny, wonderful people.

I hope that I will be able to return there soon. To go back to wandering the streets, drinking coffee, eating wonderful delicacies of local cuisine. conversations. About everything and nothing. And if I manage to take a few photos along the way – it will be wonderful. I keep my fingers crossed, especially on this day, for all Ukrainian friends. Glory to Ukraine!

A beautiful trip to the Dolomites with my son for skiing. Location, weather. Even though I had to focus on work in the first days, we managed to spend time together doing what I love, and Krzysiek does it just perfectly. And the son is basically an adult…

Chris is great at skiing probably because he learned it very early. And he was predisposed to it. Year 2009. How old was he then? Just over 3. A beautiful village in the Polish Tatra mountains, close to my heart, Bukowina Tatrzańska. Climate, views, and a few slopes, tiny in total. Today it is looked at with sentiment, but it is actually terribly rickety. For people familiar with the Alps – a joke, for us, in Poland, one of the legendary places. Why? A great place for small children, everything is easy to manage. Excellent instructors – Chris taught Wojtek – a person created for this, a great ski teacher. So it’s hardly surprising that my son quickly learned to ski, right there. It is worth adding here that I also learned to ski there as a teenager. The infrastructure in the 1980s was the same… But that’s another story, unfortunately I don’t have any photos from that time. I remember an old friend comment who also learned to ski there and is now a professional instructor. „Why Bukowina? To learn how to ride, you have to feel what the sweat, blood and tears are…” TRUE.

2010 and 2011, Bukowina again. Continuation. Better and better results … That’s why trips to slightly more ambitious routes in nearby towns, completely unknown to people from abroad. For example, Bialka Tatrzanska. One of the most popular ski resorts in Poland. EXPENSIVE!!! Good lifts, very short slopes, and crowds in the season. Well, unfortunately, we do not have the Alps in Poland.

And from 2012, the escapades began further. Trips to the Polish mountains, the so-called „men’s trips”, were a great breakthrough at the beginning of the season. But then there were the Carpathians, and Alps. Mostly, Where we haven’t been…? Slovakia – Chopok, Tatranska Lomnica, the Czech Republic – Cerna Hora, then – Austria – Schladming, Zell Am See, Kitzsteinhorn, Italy and Kronplatz, La Thuille, Via Lattea… Long list. There are beautiful memories and probably not the worst photo staff…

Last year, after the pandemic and all these horrors, there was a return to the high mountains. Hintertux, around. I was proud to watch my growing older son.

Recently, Chris stated in a diplomatic way that actually … skiing is not so passionate for him anymore. That’s why he would like to try snowboarding next season … Then he will be an adult. And he will go not with me, but with his friends … Or maybe, contrary to declarations, he will decide to go with his father?

A beautiful start to the year on the „Alpine Roof” – return to the Ziller Valley and its spectacular end – the Hintertux Glacier.

The first time I was there during a pandemic, slightly letting go. It was summer, 2020. After difficult months, I decided that … summer skiing will be the thing that will allow me to break away from everyday topics. It was an exotic, wonderful experience.

I returned to the glacier last winter in the wonderful company of my son and friends. The weather was good and the views fed the senses.

The last trip was as wonderful as the previous ones, despite the spring in the middle of winter. At an altitude of 3,250 meters, the temperature was only -0.4 degrees, at 2,660 meters +4, and at 2,250 meters almost +9 … It’s hard not to notice climatic changes in the high mountains. So let’s enjoy skiing while we still can…